Arielle Zadok, ABS
Helping people and productions explore sex, intimacy and pleasure with clarity, creativity and confidence.
Shaping the future of sex, pleasure and intimacy—on screen, in the bedroom, and beyond.
Hi! I’m Arielle Zadok, the founder and Head Mistress of The Sexy Directory, a groundbreaking platform that combines expert-led lessons, interactive resources, and gamified tools to make sex education accessible, engaging, and empowering for all genders. My mission is to help people explore their desires, elevate their skills, and experience deep erotic transformation.
As a holistic sex & relationship coach, I guide individuals and couples through removing blocks, gaining clarity and getting the tools and resources they need to experience the kind of earth shattering, expansive sex, love and intimacy they never thought was possible for them. My sessions and workshops are designed to make sex and connection approachable, transformative, and uniquely tailored to your journey, utilizing a mix of both spiritual and science-based practices.
On set, I work as a Certified Intimacy Coordinator, ensuring that on-screen intimacy is safe, authentic, and impactful. Drawing on my two decades of experience in film and television—including creating and leading Disney Television’s Health & Safety program as well as producing and assistant directing for major campaigns with brands like ESPN, MLB, Nickelodeon, Air Jordan and more—I create environments where storytelling and collaboration thrive.
I’m also a proud advocate for safe and empowering sex positive spaces as Consent Director for The Play LA and a workshop facilitator at Lovely Fate.
Beyond my professional life, I serve as the Los Angeles Drive Host for the Distinguished Gentleman’s Drive, raising nearly $50,000 since 2021 for Movember’s work in men’s mental health and cancer research.
When I’m not working, I’m either on a pole, driving my 1974 MGB, or at home with my little shih tzu, Rosie, and my sweet black cat, Ruby.
Whether through education, coaching, or storytelling, my goal is to redefine how people and productions approach intimacy, connection, and pleasure—with confidence, safety, accessibility and care.
How We Can Work Together
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Earth-shattering intimacy starts here
Break through blocks, gain clarity, and unlock the tools for expansive sex, love, and connection you never thought possible.
Tailored coaching sessions blending spiritual and science-based practices for profound transformation.
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Redefining pleasure education for all genders
Explore expert-led lessons, easy to find resources, and gamified tools to enhance your pleasure, expand your understanding of sex and deepen your intimacy.
Accessible, engaging, and designed to empower your unique journey with a healthy dose of fun.
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Crafting safe, authentic, and impactful intimacy on screen
As a Certified Intimacy Coordinator with over two decades of industry experience, I create environments where collaboration and storytelling thrive.
Partner with me to ensure every scene is handled with safety, consent, and authenticity.
As Featured In
Sharing my expertise on sex, intimacy, connection, and storytelling across platforms.
Featured Articles
The Guardian
PopSugar
Kinkly
Podcast Appearances
Our Relationship W/ Emmy & Ify
Sex In Space
Sweet Release w/Barbie Jean
Event Highlights
Panelist: “The Sex You Want” Book Launch by Rena Martine at Ribbed Boddice Bookstore
Photos Courtesy of Joseph Nicholas Duarte and Rena Martine
Want to Collaborate?
I’d love to share my insights on intimacy coordinating, sex education and cultivating the kind of sex and relationship that people write songs about with your audience.
If you’re looking for a podcast guest, article contributor, panelist, or moderator for your event, let’s connect!
Stay Connected
Join The Sexy Directory community and get recommendations on pleasure product, date night inspirations and be the first to know when our expert-led, gamified pleasure education platform goes live on 6/9. Plus, you’ll get a free gift just for signing up!
Before You Go: Let’s Talk About Birds & Bees (And Why They Don’t Fck)
I hate to be the one to break it to you, but birds & bees? They don’t fck!
If you’re looking for a fresh take on sex, intimacy, and how sex education of the past failed us, my show Birds & Bees Don’t Fck is where it’s at. Each episode dives into the gaps left by outdated sex education, with candid, entertaining, and sometimes downright hilarious discussions that make the complex simple—and the taboo approachable.
From unlearning what we thought we knew to exploring how to do better, Birds & Bees Don’t Fck offers a space for real talk about the kind of intimacy and pleasure that’s actually possible. Whether I’m chatting with experts, sharing stories with comedians, or casually sneaking in tidbits of sex education, the goal is always the same: to make you feel informed, empowered, and entertained.